Follow These Rules To Save Your Marriage
If you want to save your marriage there are set of rules to follow. Marriage is much more important than any game and yet married couples are thrown on to the playing field with no experience and no idea of the rules.
Some couples master the rules faster than others. Some come to a decision they don’t like the game at all and call it a day. Others carry on playing the game even though they don’t like it and are not having any fun at all. They keep on rolling the dice hoping that their luck will change and the game will get better.
Let’s have a look at 5 rules that can save your marriage.
1. Be Tolerant.
It’s simple to see the good in somebody providing they are doing what you like; but also make the effort to be tolerant of the things that irritate you and see them as not as faults but special personality characteristics. Love the faults as well as the benefits.
2. Be a Space Giver.
This means not only having separate wardrobes but allow each other much needed private time. Being with someone you love all the time is challenging. This applies to not only at home but with friends as well. Incidentally, with regards to the space in the wardrobes, keep yours tidy.
3. Travel Together And Make Memories.
It’s tricky to find time to take a holiday in a busy marriage but you must do it. A change of surroundings can really save your marriage by reigniting the spark that may be fading. And memories can be the glue that keeps you stuck together while the other pressures of life try to pull you apart.
4. Don’t Argue But Compare Opinions.
Arguments will arise in any relationship but if you want to save your marriage be respectful of your partner’s opinion. If the argument gets heated and its late in the day, it may be best to go to bed and sleep on it. An old saying recommends that you to never go to bed angry but things generally look better in the morning. Never give an ultimatum unless you want it to be taken. Give consideration to your partner’s likes and dislikes and you’ll have fewer arguments.
5. Remember The Romance.
You don’t have to be newlyweds to experience romance and intimacy. One of the ways to improve a relationship is to remember what you did when you starting dating and do it again. You probably exchanged gifts, took walks and went out for romantic dinner dates. You may think you know everything about your partner and if that’s so, why aren’t they happy? Why aren’t you happy?
CAN YOU SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
Rules can change but people rarely will. The only person who can change is you. And, the person who changes is often the winner. Nobody said that marriage was easy but there are proven ways to fix marriage problems. If you see the signs of an unhappy marriage and you do nothing, the chances are that it will fail.
A happy marriage takes time and you’ve got the rest of your life together. If you do something now and take steps to resolve your marriage issues there is a much better chance that you and your partner can make your relationship work. For more genuine ways to save your marriage take a few moments to watch this FREE video presentation.